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Cheers! I enjoy giving advice and I think I'm good at it. Is it pretentious to say I refuse to answer questions about "Love" from people who are under age 16? I don't think love is real when you're 14, and I don't think you can fall in love in a month. I won't dignify that kind of stupidity with an answer. I also won't answer questions with terrible grammar. I just make fun of them on myspace! I know that's not nice, but it's just SO easy. And it's so unfair for me to give them a good, honest answer when they haven't asked a good, proper question. Ask me a real question and I will give you a real answer!

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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?

If you're this conflicted about having sex with this guy, then you should not do it. Sex should be something you're confident about doing, and you shouldn't do it just because your friends have or because some guy wants you to. You are not a piece of meat. You can make your own decisions and you don't need someone who doesn't respect you trying to get you to do something you don't want. I think it's more than obvious in your post that you don't even want to have sex, even if you "really really like" this guy.

Respect yourself! Losing your virginity is something that happens only once--do you want to give it up for no other reason than because your friends did it? BE safe.

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