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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
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the guy i like with all my heart is mad at me and i dont noe why. i tryed talking to him but all i got was him cussing me out. then i tryed calling and trying to find out what i did wrong and all i got was him telling me not to be stupid and that i noe what i did when i have no idea what i did. i dont noe what to do?? i am sad bc i really like this guy and this is what i get. i have known him for a year now. plz help ??????
anonymous -
Guys express themselves so vaguely don't you agree?
When me and my boyfriend got into fights, he did the same thing with me. I'm guessing that your boyfriend is too upset to restate what he thinks you already know so he ends up cussing you out. My best advice would be to give him some time alone to cool off and calm down.
If you two talk via internet also, maybe you can try writing him an email, it helps sometimes to see your feelings in writing.
If not, after giving him some time to himself, write him a hand-written letter clarifying the situation. Explain that you honestly have no idea what he blew up at you about. Although you don't know what you did, apologize saying something like,
"i don't know what it was that i did for you to blow up at me, but hunni, i never have any intention to purposely hurt you. i also apologize if you may have taken anything the wrong way, but baby, i love you, and it hurt me to hear those hurtful words from someone i love so much. please tell me what it was that i did so i can fix it, cuz it means the world to me to see you happy."
Make it really heartfelt and leave it on his windshield, or leave it at his door. :) I wouldn't suggest you give it to him in person, because if he is still pissed, there's no telling what he will do.
Good luck!
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thanks i will try it
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