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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
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ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship
anonymous -
I think the best thing to do in a situation like this is sit down and have a serious talk with her. She obviously is fishing for compliments with the whole fat issue and brags a lot. I hate to say, but she is the epitome of a conceited bitch.
You need to tell her that you're really bothered by her behavior. And if you, a friend, sees how she is and is able to tolerate it to a certain extent, I'd hate to know what others think about her. Confront her about what she's done, but at the same time keep things civil. Refrain from name calling and pointing fingers, just lay out the facts.
She needs to realize that by doing what she's doing that she's giving off a bad first impression to a lot of people. If she gets offended, reassure her that you're only talking to her about it cuz your friendship means a lot to you, and that the least she could do is listen to you and consider your feelings.
Good luck! :)
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thanks, you dont have to apologize 4 calling her a bitch, im fine wit it
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