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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
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i have this girl who thinks i am here friend but i really cant stand her she is soooooo immature i think she is a lesbien too. i not saying i am against gay/lesbiens but some one who i thought who was my friend (not really) is now looking at me like i am her toy grosses me out. her sisters are really well behaved and are mature. i just wish she she would leave me alone. im not nice to her as a leave me alone sign but she dosnt get it. the reason y i think she is a lesbien is because in chorus class she turned around 31 times to me. its sisk. i mean i think she is obssesed with me . any ideas to tell her i dont want to be her friend?
anonymous -
I'd suggest that you calmly come up to her and confront her. Don't go accusing her though, just keep things nice and civil. Confront her about what she does that bothers you and tell her that you tried to be patient and tolerate it, but her behavior is unacceptable. Just straight out say, "I'm sorry, but I can't deal with this anymore. What you do makes me uncomfortable, and I can't tolerate this anymore so please, just leave me alone."
It may sound a little blunt, but there really isn't a nice way to say "beat it, i don't like you." It's the closest thing I got :) Hope this helps.
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i will confront her thanks for the advice
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