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Hello Everyone!! I'm Ashley and I am an 18 year old Senior. I'd be more then happy to answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING! Giving advice is what I do best, so if your looking for someone to help you out I'm your go-to girl!! : ) I'm planning on going to Ohio University next year to study child psychology and I think this is a great start to my future career!

ANYWAYS... enough about me!! Ask away and im more then happy to answer your questions, and by the way i NEVER reject a question! If you can take the time to write to me then i promise i will take the time to give you my best answer!

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Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.

I think that love can be experienced by any age, however I think that there is a certain maturity that has to be reached to be able to be in love. Some adults STILL haven't been able to mature enough to fall in love. And honestly, I haven't either. But everyone is different. There are always going to be people in your way in life who are going to tell you that you aren't good enough, tell you that you can't acomplish something, or in your case, you aren't old enough. This is only because they don't understand, and people are judgemental over things that they don't get. It's a path that all of us are doomed to follow one day or another, but when you come to a road block like this all you can do is go around it. Don't let it hold you back. If you know that you are in love then don't let anyone allow you to think otherwise. No one knows you better then yourself and no one can tell you how you feel about another person. If you think that you are mature enough to be experiencing love, which you very well may be, then that is great! And I'm completly jealous of you. Lots of adults like to think that kids don't have the abilty to understand feelings, and this is just becuase they may never, as a child, had the opportunity to do so. Don't let it bother you, there are always going to be people judging you and there is no way around it, just be a strong person and stand up for what you believe.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much for the great advice.
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