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16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
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no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?

oh man i know, everyone i know is all into it now. but trust me, either they regret it now or theyre going to. losing your virginity is a big thing, you can never go back and change it. you wanna make the first time with someone you love and yu want to make it memorable dont you? the only way you can be forced into it is by someone elses power, but if you have sex and you dont want to, i consider that rape. for example, a guy says hes going to hurt you if you dont do it, i think thats rape..and you really have to avoid that. plus, condoms are about 99% effecient against pregnancy but not against std's. some std's result in permamnt infertility, so when you get married and wanna have sex with the person you love, you cant make a baby with him, the reason sex is supposed to be for, anyways. im trying to remain abstinenet so when i get older i can have the things ive never had, a family, and a good happy one too. im not saying having sex now is going to ruin everything when yu get older, but it sure can have a pretty powerful effect and change alot of things.
*Good luck in your decisions!

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