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Ok everyone, I am a 16/f. I just found out Saturday that a friend of mine that I have known since middle school died. Then Sunday I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me and he is now denying it. Let alone Wednesday being the anniversary of my grampas death.
And I don't know what to do. Its so hard to hold on. I need some advice on what to do.
And on top ok everything my cousin who says shes my bestfriend is trashing my life. What do I do??
Please someone help me! (link)
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For starters get rid of your cheating boyfriend. With all this other stuff going on you don't need him around. You are young and can do much better than a lowlife that doesn't respect you.
I am sorry to hear about your friend. It's really tough when someone close to you - especially someone young or someone really close to you. Go to the funeral (if it hasn't already happened) and pay your respects - I know it's hard but don't be sad your friend has died, celebrate his/her life, they wouldn't want you to be miserable, would they.
For your Grampas death, instead of taking flowers and putting them onto your Grampas grave to wilt and die and not be enjoyed by anyone one, take them to your local old peoples hospice and give them to someone who has no family and doesn't get visitors. Not only will it make you feel better but it will make the person that you are giving the gift of flowers to feel really good too - and it would make you Grampa really proud.
As for your cousin, sit down and talk to her, tell her that you are having a really hard time at the moment and you need her to quit doing what she is doing.
If you need anything else then you know where my inbox is.
Take care and just think - you may have hit rock bottom, but at least that means the only way is up!
Keep smilin!
Mel
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