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Im a married woman with 3 kids. Im having an affair with a single man 10 years younger than me. He knows Im married and have kids. But I lied about my age. Its been 2 years now that our rel. is going on. Im living a life like a single woman and go out every weekend to the pub and the disco. Going out many dates. But Im beginning to love this guy. Now, my marriage is on the rock bec. I dont sleep home at night during the weekend. Lots of my friend doesnt know this and I cant confide this to anybody. Im not willing to give up my relationship with this man although I know its not going to go anywhere. Pls. is there anybody who can help me. (link)
First of all you are lying to two men. You took vows with your husband and if you don't want to be married to him then get out of it. That's more important with this situation. Now as far as this guy is concerned does he know you have kids? Because if he doesn't he will find out. Sometimes these lies come back and haunt us. Don't be a victim to that and come clean. The longer you live this lie the worst it will be for you and you will end up alone. Think hard what you want in all this because you will have to give something up. Don't be afarid to, otherwise you will end up with nothing.


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Yes, he knows I have kids. I know that the rel. with the other man wont work out either. For one, he is not financially stable. He is a happy go lucky guy. He take drugs, he's an alcoholic and most of all he is an irresponsible guy. I have to give him money sometimes for his daily living. But I love him inspite of all of these things. Im just waiting for the time it will come to an end. I still enjoy going out with him. Having fun once in a while. But now, Im so miserable coz he's going to another city. And we wont see each other often. Im scared to loose him. Maybe, this is the right time, to forget him. But I dont know yet if he's really leaving.




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