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I am 22 years old and I go to Allen Hancock College. I coach a J.V. girls basketball team at RHS. I like have fun and be around friends and stuff and I am pretty easy going

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E-mail: Sparky3323@aol.com
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Location: Santa Maria, CA
Occupation: Student/Basketball Coach
Age: 22
Member Since: December 27, 2004
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Last Update: February 21, 2005
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

You and your husband should sit down with your son and talk to him about what happen and find out the details of how they got to that point and if that was the first time or if it had happen before, but don't be quick to punish him because if it wasn't his idea or wasn't the one that started it he was more of a victim in a sence. If he was the one that "made the move" then you should have a talk with him about that kind of stuff and inform him about the responsiblities that come with sex so that way he will atleast have a basic understanding. But you and your husband also need to sit down with the girl and find out what is going on so that way you have both sides of the story plus i am sure she is not at easy with getting caught doing that to your son. In all though you need to sit down and talk with both of them and get all the facts and then decide what you feel the best course of action is.

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(Rating: 5) Actually she was molesting our son. Once we had her arrested other parents came forward and it turns out she had molested several little boys.


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