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Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help!

Well, if you see her smoking again you could tell her you saw her and what not. Or even confront her about lieing as well. However you can't stop her from doing anything. She has free will to do what she wants. And she may have her own reasoning for past actions right along with her current ones. All you can do is express how you feel. Hope this helps.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks- Zoin.
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