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Okay! My I have two best friends. One is a gurl named Nichole who is more like my sister and then there is my best friend Dylan. He and I have been best friends for about a year and half now. For about a year I have been growing feelings for him and he fell in love with me. But about a month ago he and I got in this really big fight and he said some really mean things about me, so ever since that fight my best friend nichole has hated his guts, but he wants to go out with me. She thinks that he doesn’t deserve me because of the way he treated me and I kind of think that but at the same time I think that everyone deserves a chance. We dated from jan 26- jan 29 then I broke up with him…but that’s a different story why I did that.. Now he wants to get back with me, but I don’t know if I should give him a second chance. My best friend nichole is pretty much right, like he treats me good but at the same time he is like kind of controlling. Like he wants me not to drink with my guy friends, only him bc he doesn’t trust me when im drunk, yet I have never given him a reason not to trust me. What do I do? Give him a second chance or not? I don’t think I should have to change anything about myself, bc he said that he loves everything about me. What do I do? Please help me. I rate 5’s!
*sami
ps..my best friend nichole told me that if I date him she is going to be very disspointed in me and I don’t want that.
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Ask him why he doesn't want you to go with your guy friends, and challange him on every answer. If he is wrong but won't change his mind, then forget him. He will continue being controlling until you are just fed up with him, and you're best friend will have lost faith in you. Don't give him another chance, and don't change yourself for him.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you. I have decided not to give him a chance. I think he is the one who needs to change and then maybe i will be his friend.
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