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several years ago, I was best friends with this girl , we were each others confidant, and could tell anything to each other. The rest of the crowd really didn't matter if we were together. It was after a year of knowing her that I realized that I was absolutely in love with her. I didn't do anything at that point because I was in the middle of applying for school.
It's been a couple of years now, and I'm still in love with her. She went off to college in another state, and our lives have gone off in different directions. Her life has changed (she's popular, beautiful etc. which she wasn't in high school), so i don't talk to her anymore, but I still can't get her out of my mind. I haven't been able to date or even be interested in another girl- because I know that she was the one for me. We both graduate next year, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all on the line, and offer her my heart. WHat do you think? I rate well. -LloydDobbler-
P.S. This is a really complicated story and if you want to help me beyond this, i'd appreciate it. (link)
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Sometimes we hide our feelings because we are afraid of the answer. The first thing you need to do is start talking to her again. You have to re-establish the lines of communications. Then you work your way back into her life. So whwn this is done she will be able to confide in you again. Right now yoy are like a starnger to her because of the time frame. A couple of years can change someone, so you need to see if she is the same person you fell in love with. If she is great! If not at least you will know and be able to move on to find the right person.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement.
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