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heyy evryonei guess you can say i'm good at giving advice. I've been through a lot. I'm not really like some other columists when i give advice. I'm honest and kind at the same time. Just please don't ask b/s questions. thanks &hearts
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ok I have/had a best friend for over 5 years all of a sudden when 8th grade cam she started to ignore me! well not exactly ignore but like she found a different best friend adn that person follows her around like a little dog! ok well this past week my "best friend" and the other person started to sit at another table and there was no room for the other girl to sit there so she sat with us. I asked her [in a calm voice] how come you guys didnt sit with us this week? and then she started SCREAMING at me and was like OK it was only a week get over it!!! Idk why you guys are soo pissed about it! and I said that we werent and then I said "when I sat with other people you guys got mad at me" and she said..SO THIS IS DIFFERENT! and stormed off and went to where my best friend was sitting. I asked someone later in the day who they were sitting with if they are mad at us(the table) and she said that my best friend said that we are all "joined at the hip, and she hated all of us in general"?!?!? and ya..I have been crying for the past 2 hours and I dont know what to say to my best friend becase I dont want her to hate me...
srry this was long and kind of complicated...
I will rate high if you help me!
*Andie*
Sorry about your friend and i think that you should just leave her to be alone w/ her other friends for a while, I mean that you should hang w/ your other friends for a while and just give her time to chill and get over it. Try to avoid her for a week and then try again to be friends w/ her. If there are anymore rumors floating around about her saying bad stuff about you, then ask if they are true. If this continues, then sry but i think that u should just end the friendship because I don't want you to put yourself in this situation over and over again and i'm sure u don't want it either. (I don't want you to put yourself in the situation because no one wants that to happen and I have learned from my own mistake which was similar to yours )
Good luck and best of wishes
(Rating: 5) thanx a lot!!!