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Q: I'm 13 and female. Ok, my best guy friend is startin to act all wierd. I mean, he used to be so nice and sweet to me and give me all sorts of advice on guys. That was before he got with his girlfriend. Then he got with is girlfriend and he was still just as sweet and kind, but then they broke up and now he's so different. It's hard to explain. He's not as sweet as he used to be and he doesn't give advice, he just says,"ur screwed then" and he's always talking to his ex-girlfriend. I don't mean to be jealous, but I do get jealous easily. He really has changed. I know he says I'm his best female friend, because he told me. I don't know how to ask him what's up with out sounding totally bitchy or jealous. Please help. I'm an advice comlumnist,too and I guess everyone needs help once in a while.

~K~

Make sure he knows that he can talk to you about anything even if you just have to say it bluntly "you know you can talk to me about anything." It seems as though something is troubling him if he changed so quickly. Just sit him down and tell him that he's been acting different and that it's starting to affect your friendship.
*~Krystal*~

Rating: 5

Thank you, you really helped me out. Guys are so confusing. :)

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Hey I'm Krystal and I'm a junior at Bowie High School. I really like music. I listen to rap and punk/rock and some country. Some of my favorite rappers are Snoop, Jay Z, Eminem, Twista, Chingy, and Ludacris. My favorite bands are Good Charlotte, Yellowcard, Something Corporate, The Starting Line, Finch, Incubus, Our Lady Peace, Green Day, Linkin Park, Greenwheel, New Found Glory, and Blink 182. Besides music I really love to dance, anything from ballet to hip-hop. My favorite sport is basketball. I love the Spurs and the Sixers oh and I loathe the Lakers!!