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theres this guy.. i'm in grade 8 now and i've known him since grade 3.. hes really great and i like him really much... i started liking him as a crush in grade 6.. buh then i was a gayass in grade 6 so then i acted really immature and he hated me until now.. yet i've heard that he liked me last year but doesn't anymore.. i wanna tell him that i'm sorry and ask him if we can start over.. buh every time i walk up to him no words cum out and i look like an idiot.. i'm scared of how he'd react cuz i'm really sensitive and emotional and i mite start crying infront of him and that'll be embaressing.. its like i'm scared of him and i can't go and talk to him... do you have any advice on how i can get rid of this fear of rejection and maybe have enough courage to express my feelings to him? *excuse the grammer plz* (link)
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This is where you really need courage, dear, I can understand fully. I like this guy and I just can't tell him mostly because of my fear of rejection and all. I would just say to pratice it, try to get words into your head, or write him a note. Anything you can do to just get it out and tell him the truth and all, you should try. Even if in the end if it doesn't work out, you can at least see that you tried and had both the strength AND courage to risk it all. Good luck, dear.
- Kai -
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