Member Since: January 25, 2005 Answers: 12 Last Update: January 28, 2005 Visitors: 1501
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ok...well my ex boyfriend recently told me that he still loves me--ALOT! He called me on my cell phone at 1 in the morning...and i was asleep but it woke me up and i answered and he said...what would you say if i asked you out again...and at the time i still had some feelings for him...so not thinking being as sleepy as i was i said yes...the next day when i woke up i totally changed my mind...so when i got home the next day i had 62 missed calls on my phone!! all from him!!! and then i got a text message from him asking me out again...i said we should just be friends back...but then he said you led me on...and i don't even want to be friends with you you hurt me to much. And i can see how i led him on but...i mean i was really tierd and sleepy and wasn't half aware of what i was saying...but i really want to be friends with him...hes a great guy!!! Help me!!! What should i tell him? (link)
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Just tell him you dont want to be with him like that. And please, for HIS sake, do not be friends with him. His feelings for you will never go away and he will always want to be with you, even tho you only see him as a friend. Just completely end contact with him. If you really care about him that is what you will do and end his suffering. If you become his friend, he will hurt everyday because he can't be with you and the thought will always be in the back of his mind that you will never be anything more than a friend.
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thanks! u helped me see it from a guys point of view!
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