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all right, I'm sure that i'm not the only one that has this problem. First of all, I'm male and straight. I have friends that are girls, who I become friends with, but then I might want to date later. I like being friends with a girl before I ask them out. I've dated girls before that I haven't really gotten to know before asking them out, and then we might last for a month or two. The girls I become friends with, I really like, but then they may say comments like " I wish I had a boyfriend that was like you." Here I am though? IF I bring it up about us going out, they say we're too good of friends to risk that. They ask me questions about guys and other stuff, but I'm starting to feel like I'm their best gay friend, but I'm not gay. What should I do if this happens again?
P.S. For you smart arses out there- I'm not effeminate either. I have a deep voice, drive a land rover, play football, hockey, and lacrosse, and dress in subdue clothes.
Thanks. (link)
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First of all stop trying to explain yourself to people. If you are secure enough with your manhood then don't worry about what other people think. Second, the great thing about having friends as girls is that you meet other girls through them. If you see someone they know that you can show interest with then let them hook you up. Sometimes they themselves might get a little jealous because all of a sudden they may start to like you. But you have valuable resources when having girls as friends. They can make you look good to other girls. Use that to your advantage.
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Maybe that will happen. I'm secure in myself, I did that just for the a-holes on this site that use this as a way to abuse people. Thanks for your advice.
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