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I am 17, living in New England.

I have a brother (6) and a sister (11) and two parents who I get along with really well. (it's not always easy!)

I like writing poetry and music. I play piano and guitar (and a little bass). I love reading, shopping, and being stupid with my friends and my boyfriend.

I like giving advice because I love writing, connecting with people, and sharing things I've learned.

Ask me anything and I'll try and help! :-)

Some areas of expertise: long distance relationships (my boyfriend is 3 states away at college!), family stuff (I have learned how to tame parents, haha!), messy breakups, makeup tips, and anything about clothes!
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So I havent had a boyfriend in a long time and i am thinking of giving up but im not sure what i shood do....Im not shy and im outgoing and most people would call me pretty but its like no guy ever asks me out or nething....they just see me as a piece of ass but i want to be seen as more then that....Please help...any suggestions would be great! (link)
Good for you!

Knowing that you want more is the first step. Unfortunately, the guys who want to see you as more can be rare.

It sounds like you're doing everything right. You're friendly and interesting and you have lots of friends. Just keep it that way. Make friends who are guys and girls and don't rush the boyfriend issue. Many good things are often found when you aren't even looking.

You have the right idea. Seeing yourself as valuable will help other people see you this way. Present yourself in a way that shows you respect yourself and you want to be seen as you are inside. Sooner or later, the RIGHT guy will notice, and one right guy is better than a hundred ones in a row who aren't into who you really are inside.

Have patience and know that you are great with or without a guy in your life!


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I just wanted to say thank you so much....I really liked ur answers and they made me think...your a sweetie!




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