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Age: 28
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Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help > (link)
Hey Phantom! Sometimes we question ourselves on how lucky we are to have that person in our lives. But we never see the answer to the question on how lucky they are as well. You know that you are a good person and have a big heart to love someone like this. You need to remind them on how lucky they are on that. If beauty ruled the relationship then that person who thiks their hot will be the lonliest person as time progresses. Don't lose sight of what's imporatnt here. The love you share breaks all boundaries and you will be both be beautiful to each other.


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Thank you so much for your inspiring words.




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