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Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.

well you didnt give very much info. because I have a question. Are you trying to take them of him nude? If you are then you should realize that if you are not feeling comfortable with him taking pictures of you nude then you cant expect him to agree to you taking his pictures.he might not feel comfortable with it either. if they arent nude then hes just being stupid,you should think of something to make him agree to you taking his pictures like a day trip to wherever he wants like if you live somewhere near a beach or the mountains or someplace fun, your treat or just ask him what he wants in return for the pictures but dont let it be degrading you shouldnt be selling yourself to a boyfriends who wants your nude pictures for his clothed pictures
MY ADVICE: think fair about it,ask him what he wants in return, and dont let it be degrading(like that lap dance thing)

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(Rating: 5) I intend a couple of shots of him to be topless, but that's it. Your advice makes sense...Thanks =)
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