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about a month ago, i asked how to tell my best guy friend of 7 years Fredo that his evil blood-sucking cant-wait-till-the-full-moon vampiress of a girlfriend Lupitalili was going to dump him. the advice was great and it all went well, but now i have a new dilemma: i just recently realized that i have the HUGEST crush on him! what he hell do i do? this is a different kind of crush because we're really good friends...JUST really good friends (who by the way established that with each other and everyone else a couple of years ago). if i tell him, he wont totally freak out like maybe other guys, but things will defenitly be different, and i cant risk our friendship. telling other guys i like them is one thing, BUT THERE'S A TRUE FRIENDSHIP AT STAKE! I cant just hide my feelings for him either, because, like i said, this crush is just...different somehow. what do i do? there's also a whole bunch of girls who are like in love with him.i always thought of him as a brother who i couldnt love anymore even if he really was MY OWN FLESH AND BLOOD. having a crush on him changed a lot of things going on in my mind and will change a lot more on everyone else's. what do i do? (link)
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Sometimes it's hard to be around people who we want to be with so much. Distance is the key. Don't disappear completely, but make yourself a bit gone for a while. If he questions it, then you'll be able to tell him and see what his reaction would be. If he doesn't make a move than you know he doesn't really care and you can concentrate on your life in finding someone who will appreciate you. Now if you are someone who can't stay away from him , then tell him now and let him tell you how he feels. Let him know if he doesn't feel the same that's fine but you still want to cultivate the friendship.
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Rating: 5
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thanx,that's probably the best advice i've gotten.keep it up!
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