im 14 i go to a fine arts school and YES I KNOW I CAN'T SPELL, and my grammar sucks, but still read my column!
Gender: Male
AIM: milkcarton08
Member Since: December 16, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: March 9, 2005
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I'm 14-years-old so I'm not looking for my life partner or anything. Well, my friends and even some people I don't know call me shallow because I only go out with guys I think are hott. And it's true but only to a certain point. Yes, I do look at looks first but doesn't everyone? I look at looks and if I think they're attractive then I'll talk to them and such. But I'll only date them if they have a great personality to go along with their looks. Personality can also make a guy hott to me so even if I'd initially think they were ugly but they had a confident, amazing personality I'd think they were hott. And like I said before, it's not like I'm looking for they guy I want to marry right now; I'm just having fun and meeting different guys. Does the way I see that make me shallow? Or is the way I pick the guys I want to go out with wrong? (link)
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Why wouldn't you turn anyone down because of looks?
I think ugly people put too much emphasis on the "inside." Your outer appeareance is just as important as your inner! Sure beauty fades, and all that, but that doesn't mean you should let yourself go and not take care of your appeareance.
And don't think you are just this awful shallow person, because your not. There are a lot worse people. But I think we are all a little shallow being teenagers.
And your completely right about how it's not like your looking to marry anyone. Just have fun, enjoy the time where you don't have to worry about if your boyfriend/girlfriend is the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with.
Hope I helped,
-milkcarTON08
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lol Thanks. And I agree with the ugly thing but sometimes people can't help but look that way and that doesn't mean they can't have a good personality.
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