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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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I'm 14-years-old so I'm not looking for my life partner or anything. Well, my friends and even some people I don't know call me shallow because I only go out with guys I think are hott. And it's true but only to a certain point. Yes, I do look at looks first but doesn't everyone? I look at looks and if I think they're attractive then I'll talk to them and such. But I'll only date them if they have a great personality to go along with their looks. Personality can also make a guy hott to me so even if I'd initially think they were ugly but they had a confident, amazing personality I'd think they were hott. And like I said before, it's not like I'm looking for they guy I want to marry right now; I'm just having fun and meeting different guys. Does the way I see that make me shallow? Or is the way I pick the guys I want to go out with wrong?

that doesn't make you shallow at all! i mean you're young, and if you aren't ready for a real commitment, then i don't see the big deal with having fun and meeting different guys! as a matter of fact, i know a bunch of girls who are like that. you should be able to have fun now that you are young.. but don't turn guys down just because they aren't very attractive. but as i read, you don't, so it's all good! you are innocent. =)

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