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Hey my name's Hayley, I'm 15 years old and i love to give advice and help! :) Don't be afraid to ask me anything ;) Thank you and I hope you enjoy everything.
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hey i need help really bad! i need help because i think i still have really strong feelings for my ex. i know he does to because he tries putting his arm around me and stuff but i tell him not to.. anyways the problem is we have been broken up for about 1 month and now i have a new boyfriend.i like him, but all the time i catch myself thinking about my ex... my new boyfriend is really great but he cant compare to the feelings that my ex gave/still gives me.. i dont want to mess up either.. can some one please help!
I have this same exact problem right now too! i know its killing me too. But i think we both know what we should probably do even thought its not what we want to do... maybe. But my advice is break up with your current boyfriend, and talk with your ex. Tell both of them the honest truth and follow your heart. Take some time to think to yourself what you think is best for you. Tell your boyfriend that your breaking up with him because (obviosly the reasons) and that you don't want to hurt him -hopefully he will be understanding... but know what its probably for the best. With your ex... talk about everything - your feelings, relationships, why you broke up last time.. and what to do now. Good luck, hope i helped =D .. by the way- tell me what happens because i need with with this too, its cool to see some1 with the same situation ;)
(Rating: 5) hey, thanks for your advice, but i chose to stay wit my current boyfriend and not give up on him cause i like him alot. My old boyfriend and i are friends (we talked and stuff) then i was like i think its best if u dont try to put your arm around me anymore. he said ok, (and by the way he still does like me) and so me and my old boyfriend are just friends, and my new boyfriend and I have a really good relationship now!! he know's everything and he accepts it, and we have worked things out, hey i guess he really does like me!