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Q: okay i have a major problem
my school has the biggest clique system EVER....like you wouldn't believe how many cliques there are. Its such a big deal....and its really get on my nerves to the point where I can't concentrate on my school work and my grades are slipping. This is because I'm at the bottom of the pit I only have a few friends (1 or 2) but still I wish I had more and theres a certain group that I would like to make friends with and they seem nice but I'm soo shy and people say I'm one of the shyest girls in the grade and that I hardly speak. I know I should speak more but its hard for me and I think I have social anxiety. Please help as high school is starting next year and I don't know whether to switch schools or change my image at the school I am going to (the school I am at has the grades pre-k till 12th). Also my school is one of the best schools in the nation and that is another reason why I am having a tough time deciding whether to leave it simply because of the cliques. I heard someone call me a reject and a loser at school....and to be honest I am a reject, but I know I'm not a loser. Please help, thank you sooo much!!
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All schools have a clique problem. You should look into getting an anti depressant for social anxiety. Don't worry it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you but I also wouldn't go around telling people you take it. As for that one group who seems nice, you HAVE to assert yourself. You don't just go to school one day and get recruited. What's the worst that could happen? You've already been called mean names, you have nothing to lose. And if they seem nice, they probably are. Trust me, it's not that hard and you'll gain respect from it.
GOOD LUCK
peace
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thanks a lot hun I really appreciate it =)
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I'm an 18 yr old female and I'm preparing to go to the University of North Texas next fall and I want to major in Fashion Marketing. I've had the same boyfriend since I was 16 so I can help with relationship/love/sex questions. I'm a drummer in an all girl band and I appreciate music so I can help you there also. I'm obsessed with fashion and unique styles so if you ever need a suggestion I'm there for ya. I've always been told that I'm pretty decent at giving advice and I'm curious as to what you need to know, so hit me up.
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Gender: Female Age: 18 Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 82 Last Update: January 29, 2005 Visitors: 5280
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