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okay i have a major problem
my school has the biggest clique system EVER....like you wouldn't believe how many cliques there are. Its such a big deal....and its really get on my nerves to the point where I can't concentrate on my school work and my grades are slipping. This is because I'm at the bottom of the pit I only have a few friends (1 or 2) but still I wish I had more and theres a certain group that I would like to make friends with and they seem nice but I'm soo shy and people say I'm one of the shyest girls in the grade and that I hardly speak. I know I should speak more but its hard for me and I think I have social anxiety. Please help as high school is starting next year and I don't know whether to switch schools or change my image at the school I am going to (the school I am at has the grades pre-k till 12th). Also my school is one of the best schools in the nation and that is another reason why I am having a tough time deciding whether to leave it simply because of the cliques. I heard someone call me a reject and a loser at school....and to be honest I am a reject, but I know I'm not a loser. Please help, thank you sooo much!! (link)
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The whole clique problem is a bad one, but it's hard to avoid it no matter what school you go to. If having more friends is really what you want, and being more popular, I would say change school. Changing schools is always tough because the main reason that kids and teenagers go to school SHOULD be because of the education, but these days it's not. When you start highschool, it helps to have a lot of friends, so you can ask them about stuff, always have someone to hang with, and to boost your self confidence. But no matter what, if you have at least one best friend keep that best friend, and that shows you that someone loves you, and don't let go of them. If you do change school, start over. Like I mean don't be so shy, speak your mind. People won't say you're a "reject or loser" because they don't know you, so you have nothing to be scared of. I hope I helped! If you still have more questions I would be more than happy to answer them! :)
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thanks a lot hun i really appreciate it =)
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