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Okay, here's how it is: one of my best friends' boyfriend (I'll call him K) isn't the loyal type, but she doesn't really care. The only problem is, he has a crush on me but won't admit it. EVERYBODY in the choir (we're choir geeks, sosumi) knows he likes me. I have a boyfriend. I have no feelings for K. It doesn't bother her that he talks to her about her other crushes. It just bothers her when he talks about me, 'cause I'm one of her closest friends.
I've been considering the following plan: Actually yanking him aside one day during lunch or whatever and saying "look, I don't like the way you're always hitting on me and stuff like that. It really kind of bothers me, and I'd appreciate it if you stopped." If he doesn't stop after that, I figure I'd sic my boyfriend on him and get him to tell K to lay off me (but my guy already wants to beat K up for hitting on me, lol).
What do you guys think of this idea? Is it a good idea? Do you have any other suggestions? I hate to see my friend upset...=( (link)
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You need to lay down the law to this boy (cos he's definitely no man!)
Tell him that you are not interested in him and even if he was single and you were single and he was the last man on earth you wouldn't touch him with a bargepole.
Try and explain to him how he is making your friend feel and that she deserves more respect from him than that.
I wouldn't go and get your boyfriend involved. I understand he must be upset but the last thing you want is an atmosphere created between your best friend and you because your boyfriends have been fighting each other - especially as your friend needs people like you around her with the boyfriend she has!
Take care and I REALLY hope it all works out for you.
Mel xxx
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Thanks so much for taking the time to answer. I'm gonna talk to him, and I didn't think about the whole atmosphere between me and my friend about our boyfriends...thanks for pointing that out. ^^
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