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I love helping people. I was a psychology major in college with a minor in family and child development. I love trying to problem solve and have a way of reading between the lines. I'm in a wonderful marriage (it has taken alot of work and alot of ups and downs) and have survived several family crises. I can often speak from experience. Ask me anything, I'm here to help.
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I just want to know when it is the right time to tell him my feelings? I know deep in my heart i am in love with this man. At the same time i am scared to tell him how i feel because, i don't know how he feels about me in that way any way. I am afraid to tell him because i dont want him to get scared and leave the relationship. At the same time it is killing me not to tell him. (link)
To be completely honest, it worries me that you aren't more secure about this. I get the feeling that you want to tell him this only to hear it back. Take a deep breath and let the relationship take it's course. If you are with the right person, you shoudn't worry so much about him leaving the relationship.
Well if you think you are just both thinking the same thing, then don't be afraid to tell him! But just say it casually like, "I love spending time with you!" If he scares easily,then a casual approach is probably best. GOOD LUCK!


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You have good advise, there is just more to it we were both in bad relationships before and it is kind of scary for both of us. I dont wnat him to think i am not telling him my feelings either. He may be thinking the same way i am right now, and he may be afraid to say something.




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