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My mom and I spent the whole day together. That's not the point. We went somewhere to visit family and when we came home, I went in my room to get away, to relax. So she goes in the living room and sits down on her fat ass.. and conviniently starts ordering me to do things. I was sitting her, we had gotten home like 15 minutes prior to this. I told her I would do it in a bit but she proceeded to yell at me to do it. So the very last time she yelled at me, these were her words: "If you're not fucking out here in 5 damn minutes, I'm kicking your ass off the computer." So in return, I told her to shut up. Not even yelling, it was to myself, and she overhead. So she came to take my danm cellphone, the phone I bought with my money, and pay for with my money, and for some reason she believes she has owenership over because its in her name. BULLSHIT. I'm so pissed I'm hitting shit now.. I want to hit her. Please help.

Sweetheart I know your going to hate to hear this, I know I did when I was around your age. But Thats your Mother, she has the right to take away privlages. A phone and a computer are privlages. If you are not doing what you are told there are consequnses. When you get older and have a full time job are you going to talk to your boss like that when he askes you to do something. If so then expect to not have a job. She is teaching you a valuable lesson in respect. I know your pissed now. But understand when you have kids you will think totaly different. Try turning it around. put yourself in her possition. If you asked someone to do something for you and they gave you an attitude wouldnt you have the same reaction as mom. Remember she is the only one you will ever have. Love her and respect. And talk about what makes you upset. Communication is a huge part of Life.

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(Rating: 3) again i will reiterrate, talking doesnt work.. been there, done that. and believe me, you have no clue.. she is such a hypocrite
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