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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
i am so sorry! first of all tell her exactly how you feel and what's been happening ever since your mom started dating him, and then see what she has to say from her point of view. tell her that she's been acting differently ever since she started dating him. then say that you love her so much and you want the old her back and you've been so uncomfortable since he came into your life. maybe she feels like she needs to have someone like a man by her side so thats why shes so into him. if they just started dating then they probably wont be thinking about marriage for a while. maybe your mom will get over him and everything will go back to normal. also, even though its hard, you may want to have a talk with him. tell him that your just not ready for a new man in ur mom's life and that you want him to understand the way you feel. dont be like oh i hate your guts or anything though. also, how does your brother feel about him? you should also see a guidence counsler at school or from somewhere and talk about this with her. you probably dont want to but you really should. it will make you feel better. then after you talk to one, maybe you could set up an appointment with her, u, and your mom. i hope i could help!
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you helped alot. Im deffently not talking to him but thanks anyways. My parents are getting a divorse it will be finished january 25th and she has made me see a theripist and we have talked together with my mom and my theripist thinks that shes really stubern. WOW YOU HELPED ALOT THANX!!!! XOXOXO
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