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My name is M-----, and I am from Kentucky. I am a gay male who is neither committed or interested in becoming committed. I enjoy music, black and white photography, writing, philosophy, history, activism, politics, Spanish, theology, reading, and debating. Among other things.

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Well not to long ago, my boyfriend told me that he loved me. Now normally he only says it over the phone, so one day I told him I loved him, when we were face to face. Today, as he was getting on the bus to go out of town for wresteling, I called out his name and mouthed the words "I love you". All he did was stand on the stairs of the bus and stare at me, waved and left. I know that I probably shouldnt stress about it but what if he doesn't "feel the same way" anymore?

Personally, I feel that teenagers nowadays (I am a teenager, mind you) use 'love much too easily. We 'love' grapefruit. We 'love' this movie. We 'love' or boyfriends/girlfriends.

But, in this case, I feel that your boyfriend may feel kind of 'de-manned' in the sense that he may have wanted to say it to you, face-to-face first.

I might way of base, here, but I am speaking through experiance.

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(Rating: 3) Yes, I agree with you on some terms. But in my case and some others I know of, neither of us had said it to another person before....Plus, he was the one who said it on the phone first, I'm not too particularily fond of saying it on the phone before face to face. But thats how he chose too.
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