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Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.

I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.


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Ok there is this guy let's call him *Adrian* and we have been talking for awhile. We got to be so serious that I was gonna lose my virginity to him. Well, see, the thing is, I guess we didn't get to serious because we never went out!! That sucked but anyways, I called him last night and he didn't sound like himself so I said 'Adrian what's wrong?' and he said 'I can't be talkin to you' and I was like 'why?' and he said 'I am in a situation that I DON'T want to tell you about.' and I said 'just tell me babe' and he said 'I am in a relationship..' I was like "WHAT?!?' and he goes 'I am in a relationship' and we were really quiet so I was like 'fine I'll let you go then' and we hung up. See through the convo I kept asking him who the girl was, but he wouldn't tell me who! He just kept telling me that I don't know her...blah blah blah. Well, I really did like him, but now I don't know what to do. HELP!! I RATE 5'S!!

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I'm so glad you didn't waste your virginity on him! You've been pretty honest, he knows you're interested in him. You did the best thing, by just saying 'fine, i'll let you go' It may take awhile, but he'll be thinking of you (when his current chick is a psycho) and at the very least you got away from this player, acting like a lady. Keep your dignity and don't call him... hope this helps.


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Thanks so much...hopefully he will soon see that I am missing in his life!




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