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Q: Ok, I'm having my b-day party this fri. and I invited a whole bunch of people and everything, but my one guyfriend, Matt found out that my friend Crystal is going (they're like fighting and everything) and now he doesn't want to go. I really want him to, cuz he's like my older brother. Crystal's definitely going and doesn't care about whether Matt's going or not, she just wouldn't talk to him if he did. She told me to tell Matt not to ruin my party and just go and stay away from here. Well, I did, and he still won't go. He said he loved me (as a friend) and he'd do anything for me, but he just can't go to my party. I think he's bein real immature about it. During 1st period today, Crystal told me he wrote he a real nasty letter about her, but then at lunch, he let me read it and it wasn't bad at all, he was actually just trying to make peace and all. So I'm really confused. I really really want him to go. What can I do?

Tell Matt that he can stay as far away from Crystal as he wants, and if he respects you and loves you like he says he does than it shouldn't matter if she's there. It sounds like you need to tell you friends to grow up because childish games arn't gonna get them anywhere. I hope it works out for you, and Happy Birthday.
*Rachael*

Rating: 5

thanks, i tried talking to him about it, but he still won't go, whatever, he can be an immature biotch about it if he wants =)

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HEY EVERYBODY!!! My name is Rachael. Im a sophmore at my high school. I play soccer and run cross-country for my high school. I also work part time at a bowling alley, it sucks but I get payed good. Feel free to ask me anything even it it doesn't involve advice.
Much luv
Rachael