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My mission on Advicenators is to be honest. People lie when they answer because they want to be rated high, but I think people ask strangers on Advicenators things because they want an honest answer.My alias is Farren, and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm mature for my age, but that could just be self-dilusion. I believe that everyone is in some way self-dilusional. So yeah, ask me a question if you want.
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Ok well theres this guy hes like my best friend! i met him 2 years ago and he's always been there for me when i was sad/mad or in a fight w/ some1, anything.he always told me he loved me ever since he met me and all this stuff and when he would ask me out i would say no for several reasons.we talked and he told me all this stuff that he loved me and i would tell him i was sry but i just couldn't go out w/ him...he got me so frustrated...and when this guy i liked asked me out i said yes and now this guy that loved me was really sad..i tryed talking to him about it but he wouldnt talk to me back...now it seems like our friendship is you know just weird...i dunno. But now he wont talk 2 me at all and it would make me feel bad for not going out w/ him. Well yea he would talk to me but when i would say "hey!!!" he would be like "hi...." and thats the whole conv. cuz he wont answer me after that. ppl have told me that it would pass and he will get over it but i cant get over the fact that he wont talk to me!!!it just worries me...hes my best friend and i told him that i need advice...i need help... thanks in advance...
Of course he isn't talking to you. He's probably realized you're never going to go out with him and he wants to get over you, and not talking to you will help him with that. Give him his space. After a while he might get over it and be okay with being friends, but yeah, you should've expected this behavior. How would you feel if you liked a guy for a long time and stuck by his side and he rejected you and went out with someone else? It's not something you can help, you just don't like him, so you shouldn't feel guilty, but he's acting normal under the circumstances.
-Farren
(Rating: 5) thanx for the advice!