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I just found out my husband has been cheating on me. We agreed to separate for a while because we can't live together right now. But he is still sleeping with this woman who is also married with children. He says he is not sure weather or not it is going to work out with her, that he doesn't know her, he is just living a fantasy right now, replacing what was missing in our relationship. He is getting attention he hasn't gotten from me in a while because our lives have been so busy. It doesn't make it okay, but our relationship is way to special to throw away and I want to work it out with him. We are going to couples counseling in a few months. I am having a hard time convincing him to stop sleeping with this woman, and I am thinking about sending this woman's husband the e-mails she and my husband have exchanged along with a letter I have written to him revealing the truth about what his wife has been out doing. But will this push this woman further into my husbands arms or will it make her and her husband focus on their own relationship instead of her focusing on hers with my man? Please help, I don't know weather or not to send it without everyone's advice out there!! Will it only cause more problems that will work against what I want (my husband back in my arms) or will it end the affair my husband is having?
okay.. i definatly think that you should tell him..
1. because you know how it feels to have the person you love to be cheating on you with someone else.. and he deserves to know.. and their kids deserve to have two faithful parents.. and maybe that way.. he can try to fix whatever is going on in his house
2. because you shouldnt have a guilty conseience about knowing something like that and not telling..
3. maybe this guy decides that he is fed up with this.. she will probably (if she loves him) break things off with your husband and try to start over to regain her husbands trust.. and your husband will come back to you..
and.. some not asked for advice.. i think that you.. while your seperated.. let him know that you love him.. but your not going to be walked on.. i mean.. even if yall are seperated... that doesnt mean he can just go and sleep around with other married women!! i think that you should give him a choice.. because the marrage counseling isnt going to work if he is still not giving up this other woman.. because obviously he doesnt care about having both relationships.. tell him that your not gunna take it.. and if he doesnt change.... then walk.. and go and date other people.. dont let him keep walking on you.. your better then that...
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