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I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH

heehee...I tend to agree with superwoman.
But seriously, I went through this very SAME THING at 22. No kidding. Only the guy was 30-ish, but same-same. The whole thing ended up messing me up pretty seriously, cause even though it wa'nt my plan, I got hooked. I fell really hard, and none of my feelings were ever reciprocated or acknowledged. I totally bottomed out on self-esteem, and for a good many years, ended up making stupid choices in the man department.
The fact that you're even asking this means you feel something already.
Do the tough thing and ask him WTF. If he isn't on the same level as you are, it'll hurt, but less so than it would later.

And if he is gay, at least you'll have a lifetime shopping partner, THEN you can go and find someone to 'partner' with in other ways :D

xo
ABCTC

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(Rating: 5) I really don't think he's gay lol but I have to some point asked him what was going on and he says im pushing the subject...
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