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Hello Everyone!! I'm Ashley and I am an 18 year old Senior. I'd be more then happy to answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING! Giving advice is what I do best, so if your looking for someone to help you out I'm your go-to girl!! : ) I'm planning on going to Ohio University next year to study child psychology and I think this is a great start to my future career!

ANYWAYS... enough about me!! Ask away and im more then happy to answer your questions, and by the way i NEVER reject a question! If you can take the time to write to me then i promise i will take the time to give you my best answer!

Oh and I would REALLY appreciate your feedback... whether good or even bad, I really like to know how i'm doing, so I can help better. I've had a lack of feedback lately so if you could help me out for helping you out, I would LOVE it!! 1 or a 5, just be truthful! Thanks so much!!!! And Goodluck!

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Alright well here is the story hehe! I started going out with this boy and at first I didn't like him that much...well for Christmas he bought me a diamond ring! It kinda freaked me out...he kept being like way too clingy and I got kinda scared. I mean I liked him but I didn't think I liked him that much. Well I told him that I got punished and I really like him but I didn't think it would be the best time to have a boyfriend. Well he still wanted me back and I started to like him more and more well randomly out of no where he told me I was acting differently and now he said we are friends. Well you probably guessed...I like him A LOT now!! I don't know what to do...I told him I still liked him alot and he sometimes seems like he likes me like he kissed me on the forhead the other day but I don't understand. I don't know what to do, I really want him back! I asked my brother about it and he told me to just like fall back and don't beg him just kinda avoid him and not seem very clingy or whatever..I don't know if that will work...Does anyone know what I should do it seems I am fresh out of ideas!!...

Wow! Okay sweetie i know EXACTLY what you are going through trust me... i just went through the exact same situtation, and i know... it isn't fun. My boyfriend and i had been going out for like 2 months and he told me he loved me and that totally scared the shit out of me!! Then i broke up with him and was totally sad and missing him after like a week. But now we are back together and i will tell you why!! Your brother is completly right, throwing yourself at him isn't going to make him want you. Think about it, guys and girls aren't that differnt. When he was throwing himself at you and getting you a diamond ring and whatnot it kind of turned you off or pushed you away... but now that he is sending mixed signals you want him so badly. It's because he is giving you a challange. Guys like a challange! Just as us girls do. So back off, i know it will be hard, it was so hard for me but once i stopped telling him how much i missed him and i stopped calling him, i could see the differnce in how bad he wanted me back too. Give him space for a week or so, act like you're happy and yu don't need him. Then maybe after a week or two talk to him again and ask him how he would feel about getting back together, tell him that you miss him but you don't want to play games and you don't want to wait for him forever. And let him know that if he doesn't want to get back with you you want to move on. And if that doesn't work then maybe you really should move on... I really think this is your best bet!! It worked for me and now my boyfriend and I are happier then ever, i like him so much more theni did before and i really think this situation will end up making you guys closer then ever!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks soo...much!! I hope this helps...I'm going to try it..as hard as it may be!
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