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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?

well, you may want it, and i understand that. but make sure you consider what that entails. if you keep it, will you be able to go to college(i know it's kinda far off, but u still gotta think about it.)you'll have a 5-6 year old kid. it all depends on what you want to do with your life and how supportive your family is willing to be. if they will take care of it so you don't have to worry so much in college(or high school) then go ahead. the choice is yours and yours alone, i can only give advice, it's on you what you decide to do. my personal opinion is to side with your dad. as painful and mentally damaging as it will be, i really think that no one under 18 should have to deal with raising their own child. it's hard and it is unfortunately detrimental to alot of aspects in your life. you COULD get scholarship money for having it in college, but idk. it's your choice and i hope i helped. Metalkat86@hotmail.com. update me, i would really like to know how your situation turns out, and i'll be here to help you every step of the way if need be. be strong and follow your heart,
Kat

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(Rating: 5) girl, i am scared i must admit. I don`t LOVE the boy..but my boyfriend he said he'll be the dad...he'll support me. I think even if he's not the biological dad he could still be there ya know? well i'll email you =)
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