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What can i say? i made an advice column because i read a few of these things and i think it's the dumbest/ most vague advice i've heard. hey man if i can help, i will, but i'll be the first to admit i might not have any idea what you're going through, but i'll tell you that up front.
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aryt well bak in september.. i started highschool(freshman) and met a ton of new people.. well there was this boy on my bus (well call him john-hes a junior)well i liked him a little. we started talking and we became really good friends. well he went out w| my best friend, and i went out w| his best friend.. but things got really messed up. i think i still have a feeling for him that i might like him a little bit.. and he flirts alot. he's liek my big brother tho and i dont wanna ruin a friendship. idk if i should continue liking him, bc it could turn out to bea great relationship.. or should i just get over himand keep or friendship? hes not the kind of guy to use me, becuz he told me everything wen he was going outW| my best friend, and he isnt the type of guy to do that bc hes been hurt before and so have i. my best friend doesnt like him anymore so im not worryed about her being mad. WUT SHOULD I DO !?!?!?
just to let you know, high school relationships-- never work out. well i shouldnt say never, but you are most likely not going to get married to the person. plus you're only a freshman, so you have plenty of time. if i were you, i would preserve the friendship. if you do go out it might be awkward at first, you know because you are so close and intimacy might be new territory and be weird. if you break up though, you may not have the same friendship. so this is about you and about what is important. preserving your friendship or taking a jump for limited happiness? OH and the other thing is, he may be someone to date a little further down the line. right now you're kinda young and still testing the waters. if you remain friends then in later years maybe then he could be the perfect option. just take it slow, you have time, you're young and don't tie yourself down. .:.curbside prophet.:.
(Rating: 5) thanx !!! :o)