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SmoothiesFknRock
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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Well hun I am gonna give this a shot; once again the rock/ hard place thing comed in you have to look at it like this I am assuming you are young and so is he there is something called growing apart wether individuals like to believe it or not I am not telling you to go off and break up with him but you have to seriously think and say to yourself is this what i want 2 years is a long time but it isnt an eternity we arent in the 20's where you married your first love and had 42 babies you have all the time in the world, if need be tell him you need a break and see what else is out there, you will either realize that you want him or you need to look some more and it will be hard and it will make you cry but you dont want to sell your self short, this is your lif you have to look out for your best intrest, not try to save someone elses feelings. if you have anymore questions just ask. also hun this is a part of growing up, it will all be ok.
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