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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.

i don't think you should try and help the relationship. you may be his best friend, but this is something you have to back off of. he FLIRTS with you? ok i'm hoping not.. and if he is, then him and his girl should be over. you shouldn't be flirting with someone else while you are going out with someone! are you sure its "flirting"? he could be being friendly since ya'll are best friends.. ya know? are you so worried about his girlfriend because you may have some feelings for him? possibly.. and if you do, there isn't much you can do. don't try and end their relationship just to get what you want.

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(Rating: 4) i don't want to end it, i agree with you that wouldn't be very good of me. and we're not best friends, we're just good, ok, friends. and yes i do have feelings for him, and yes i'm sure it's flirting. thanks for your input
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