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Hey guys instead of calling me by my real name you can call me BaRbIe ok. Im 13 and i love giving advice yOo got a question ill answer it ok so there yOo go... You can start now by reading some other questions and then that may help yOo with asking yOur questions ook! have fun and remember yOo dont have to sign yOur name ok! Have fun ~ BaRbIe ~ xoxo

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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
-Siren =(

ok well this is pretty easy to answer... See siren a lot of times when a teenager is growing up they tend to have moments or times in there life where they dont feel like expressing themselves maybe what you should do is just say look ... i think you should tell me whats going on like why you never seem to wanna talk to me anymore then see what she says then go on from there ok... make sure you tell her that you still wanna be her friend ok hope i helped... ~barbie~

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(Rating: 3) See, though, it's not that she doesn't talk to me. It's that I can't talk to her about current things in my life, like my boyfriend issues, etc. She just doesn't get it/is uncomfortable talking about it. Thanks for trying, though.

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