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Hey all! I'm 15, almost 16 *August 5th* and I go to Utica High School. It's a decent school, but living in Michigan is a downer seeing as we have the most sporadict weather ever. But, I still love it. I wouldn't move if I had the chance. =) Anywho, I love Forensics, It's my biggest hobby I probably have. And no, it isn't CSI or any of that stuff, it's Competitive Speech, but not like debate. I do the drama portion of it. Haha. I also love to sing. It's my dream to grow up and sing for a band for be solo, far fetched, but I can dream dammit! I like anybody who can make me laugh, and hate people who are 'stuck up' and 'serious' all the time. People need to learn to let loose, you know? I'm also a Christian, because God is effin' cool. He's cooler than you, remember that. Also, highschoolers really need to remember : "Save yourself for the one God saved for you." There are so many sluts in my school, it isn't even funny. Rather sad if you ask me. Other than that, I'm a pretty normal teen.

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13/f---i have a "friend" named jensine and she used to be real nice when we were like 5th 6th grade- you get it... well she doesnt really have that good of a personality and people say that none of the guys like her in her school. she is really guy crazy... and she has been acting like really bitchy lately and i'm sick of it. she knows that i like this guy... his names fabian i know weird name but he's hot. well, she knows about it and said to me have you asked him out? and i said no so she says good, you better not because he'll say no -all she does is like put me down. i've known fab for a long time and we've always been like friends but not really good friends. jensine is weirdly jealous. i've already like *stopped* being friends wit her a couple times, but she always says shes changed and we'll hang out again. what should i do? should i start going out wit fab n leave jensine bc of it or wut? i dont know... i'm confused! thanx in advance... i rate high sorry this was so long its just a confusin thing!
XoBRITTANYoX

Brittany,
Alright, this Jensine girl is craving attention big time, What you need to do, is give her space and let her have her attention with someone other than you. This girl doesn't sound like she'll change. I think you should go out with Fab, and tell Jensine that if she puts you down one more time, you will not be friends, and you mean it this time. I know it's hard to let someone go, but you have to do it. She isn't a friend. Trust me. She probably wants you around so she looks cool or something which she obviosly isn't. Don't hurt her feelings mind you, if she is as unpopular as you make her out to be, she might just want a friend. Be nice, but firm.

Good luck,

AskMegan

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(Rating: 5) Thanks alot... i needed to talk to someone about it, but all of my other friends still like her. I am definetely gonna take your advice. Thanks again- Britt
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