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Gender: Female
Location: New Hampshire
Occupation: homemaker:mommy
Age: 24
Member Since: October 18, 2004
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me! (link)
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Wow, sweetie, you really need to put your chin up and smile and have some more confidence in yourself. You are putting yourself way down. No good. You need to realize that if this is such a good guy, then he just likes you for who you are, honey!! You don't want to just trash that. You don't want to be one of those women when you get older that takes abuse because you think you deserve it! Is that what kind of relationship you're looking for? No, you should go ahead and go back out with the kid and don't dump him again unless he gives you good reason to. I really hope you learn to like yourself better. Don't go through life thinking so badly about yourself. And yeah, go ahead and surprise him at his church. What a great place for wonderful beginnings and a chance to start over. The best of luck!!
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thanks. youre right i do need more confidence. i mean he must really love me if he stuck around for almost 9 months. my mom wont let me go to his church and im really upset.. cuz sunday would also be our 9 month anniversary..
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