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I have been having theese problems I mean every thing schoolparents boys and I have been cutting myself for about a year and it is really bothering me at school I will go to the bathroom and just carve a knife into my leg and I want to stop but I jsut cant I tried to but I couldnt plz help me (link)
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Ok. First of all, doesnt' you school have a rule about having weapons in school? if so, why do you have a knife or anything sharp enough to cut youself deeply at school?
Second. In light of the "no weapons" rule, if you can make it through the school day, it would be a start to stopping. If you know you can't stop on your own, it's time to bring someone else into the picture. if you have a friend, or friends you KNOW for you can trust 100% tell them, and/or go to a counsler at school, or a teacher you can trust. Explain what's going on, why you've been doing what you're doing. Tell them that you dont' want your parents involved, if that's what you want. The poing is, get someone who can help you involved, cue them in on what's going on. If you can admit something..."Admitting is the first step to recovery." You already see it's a problem, and you want to stop. Go you sweetie. You've gotten to the point of addiction, I'm sorry to say.
One more little thing: parents I can def. see being a problem, school the same ( you may want to see if you can talk to any of your teachers about that...) but the boys, don't worry about them.
Good luck.
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