Well, there's not much to me. I'm Anthony and i'm a seventeen year old boy living in suburbia. I have awesome friends who I would do anything for and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I currently am enrolled in my senior year of Highschool and im the advice collumnist in my school's newpaper (as well as the Features Editor). I enjoy voicing my opinion and I believe in voicing it whenever I can. I hate closed-minded ignorant people who only see things their way and I hate liars. I registered with this site because I love to give a helping hand to those who need it and if you have a problem, don't hesitate to ask for my advice. ^__^
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Location: Rhode Island
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Age: 17
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Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.
Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping! (link)
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I think it would be best to just tell him to screw and be done with it. You deserve so much better than a father that treats you like shit. You should be able to hang out wiht your friends on fridays and not have to go with him "house" hunting. He's a prick, simple as that. He's abusive emotionally and no one should be subjected to stuff like that. So this is what you do. You tell him that you've had enough of his bullshit and that you refuse to include him in your life. Your mother and grandmother are wonderful people, so you dont need your dad at all. :) Tell him to screw for me, okay? :D Love you!!!!
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