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ok, my ex boyfriend was at my house last week hanging out with my brother, he stayed the night and in the morning im like "Hey, wanna sign my jeans" cuz i was having everyone sign them. he said sure...and he signed them saying "luv you always, Gary" then 2 nights ago he told me that he wanted my best friend back (he was her first bf and he really liked her but she broke up with him) but yea, then he made a crying face and said "Bryanna!!!!" and did another crying face (this was on a messenger) and he has no idea how much it hurt and confused me. I mean, he writes luv you always on my pants then he says he wants them. He confuses the hell outta me and I don't know what to do about it. when i ask him how he feels he just says he doesnt know. Theres obviously no point in asking him how he feels anymore. So how can I find out? I have seen him look at me a couple times but I guess it didnt mean anything. plz help. thanks 4 reading this, its kinda long lol (link)
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He may be the one that is confused. He may like both you and your friend for different reasons but may not act on it in consideration of not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. I guess try not to read too much into everything he says or does and just remember he's confused. He definately likes you, but something is making him stuck. You don't need to find out if he likes you because the answere is that he does, but something is holding him back for one reason or another. Don't force any decisions on him because that could steer him away from you. Just be around for him, be the chic that you are and hopefully things will smooth out for him and he can figure out what to do. But it's him that has the work to do, not you. Good luck!!
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Love the advice. Thank you SO much. I will defenitly do that. No more trying to impress him or figure out what hes feeling 4 me lol
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