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I love helping people out and I feel great giving advice to people out there I don't even know. It gives me great personal satisfaction knowing that the answers I give are pretty damn good. I have a cheery personality and I like art and music. I am not religious, but have a clear view of spirituality. I will never grow up completely, I clearly remember what it's like to be a teen, but now I have a much better perspective on how to get through it all because let me tell you, I have BEEN through it all. Glad to help any way I can...
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Age: 24
Member Since: October 18, 2004
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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks (link)
Wow, I hope I can help you, because I have the same problem with something and someone...let's see...Yeah, it's really hard to read these kind of people, the on-again, off-again kind. I guess what I've been doing is just living my life and trying to figure things out as I go along. I keep on being myself and I don't let anyone change who I am. I write poems when I am in deep passionate thought about this person. Try to do things to keep you busy when you are irritated by the situation. Don't give up just yet on this person, as annoying as it all is, until this person does something to really deceive you. I can tell you there is no "off button" to stop liking this person, your feelings are real and uncontrollable. Only give up if there is intentional pain caused unto you...until then, sigh, and cry, and hope, and imagine all of the possiblities.


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Thanks so much! Your like almost the only one that understood my question




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