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Ok.. hi. See me & my sister are like 9 years apart, she's 23 & I'm 14. She is always talkin bout how I shouldn't be mean to her, but she used to ditch me for her friends & crap. Ok, well, she's all of a sudden wanted to be "sisters" and I'm just like, no. She's all whiny & she's babyish. It really gets on my nerves but, when I wanna spend time with her she's always "busy". Ok well we have alot in common but she wont open up to me & tell me about her problems. She goes & tells mom (BIG mistake). Then mother goes & tells daddy & they talk about her so bad. I dont know what to do! I know I don't like her sometimes but hey, she's my sister. Please help!!

Just talk to her. Say that when she tells your mom stuff, they talk crap. But your only 14, and she might not feel comfortable talking to you about her problems. When you ask her to hang out make sure its not that day. Just say "Hey can we hangout next saturday?" and then that way she wont schedule anything for saturday so she can hang out with you.

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