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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!

Thanx,

~lost lover~

Don't cut just don't do it why

because its addicitive, I learnt that the hard way; like smoking "ill only do it once" then you can't stop- for a weird fucked up reason its addictive

Its not healthy- smart comment there, but what you are doing is replacing emotional pain with physical pain- not good at all not to mention it does actually add to the pain rather then take it away

This surprised me but not only are you hurting yourself but those around you. There ARE people out there who care about you and you can make them cry by doing this. Think about others as well, think about who you REALLY are affecting

Those scars are very hard to go away...

The control it has over you is not good at all, something that hurts you is the control- sounds like an evil boss

Basically it hurts... I know I did it myself when a friend of mine died. Its not good and wasnt the answer at all. Find some other way to release your pain and sometimes you have to go through thta pain but any additional pain you are adding isn't going to help it at all. It doesn't help you... it really doesn't you might think it does but it trely doesn't. Your life will get better, if it has taught me anything it is that life goes on no matter what weird fucked up shit goes on in our lives but you can't let this cutting get a hold of you. Talk to someone about it- its a much better release less stress trauma and bad feeligns in the long run

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much from your advice i've haven't been cutting idk how i can repay you but that you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!
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